it shouldn't be so hard!

i think its a cruel twist that its so hard to get out of relationships once you are in them . . . this whole "oh, i don't want to hurt his feelings" and still have residual feelings for the person . . . what, you are supposed to hate the guy in order for breaking up to be possible?

and as for the breaking up after the bad weekend instead of the good - don't worry, i bet as soon as you tell him you don't want him to go to boston - there will be some kind of argument and you'll be ready again :) or else SOMETHING will happen to make him annoy you again - that is the reason you are breaking up, the good moments don't last that long any more . . .